Everytime right after, or before submitting reports about tours to my agent, I take some break at my favorite cafe, "Org. " for lunch & Cafe. It seems to become a good routine to free myself from some pressures I must have felt during tours with my clients.
Pressures we may feel in any occations seem to be things we dare want to avoide. I believe that there are few willingly to enjoy them. Me? Of course, NOT! How about you? I'm not talking only about job situations, but also in private matters.
I don't think that there are obious ways to avoide them. They always follow us and try to seek a chance to overwhelm us. It seems that I've been recently having a good relationship with them.
"You should always confront and fight against it. And then you become stornger". (Sounds soooo American!)
Some people say this kind cliché. Why do we have to fight against it, even though we aren't well prepared, strong enough, or confident enough, which sounds nothing but a loosing battle. What do you think?
I used to do things more which I was not capable of to show myself off, which seemed to make situations worse, and think that that is the quickest way to step forward in life itself. Poor boy!
Since "Knowing one's place" has become one of my favorite mottos, I've become more relaxed, confident, and wiser to live this life...
I always wonder how I make this life more worthy, enjoyable.